-->

Hello, this is me!

Nur Imroatun Sholihat

Your friend in learning IT audit Digital transformation advocate a-pat-on-your-shoulder storyteller

9 Feb 2014

IMZ’s DIARY 09022014

  • February 09, 2014
  • by Nur Imroatun Sholihat
Lazily woke up this morning (it's sunday anyway *innocent face mode: on) and started my day with those clothes need to be washed. Hihihi. After took a bath and had a breakfast (I ate martabak, biscuit, and a plate of rice. Bye bye diet), I read Gogirl magazine I just bought last night. I found many good articles. Tadaaaaaa, I got inspired to write about girl’s life. I'm completely agree with this magazine’s opinion: girls have too much deadlines. Of course count the (almost) rigid one such as you have to marry before turned into 25. Not so long ago, for the first time ever my parents asked me about man. They said they never saw me stick to someone. This kind of pressure is ok until it’s spoken by our parents *try to smile. I often heard these intimidating sentences: "At least start a relationship. You need to marry one or couple year from now on" *rolling eyes. Yeah, its fine too until I realized that I remain single all this time *sob sob.

Haha, I’m kidding. Truthfully, there's a time I envy they whom have boyfriend but I stay composed. Being single isn’t a bad option (no no, single isnt equivalent to desperate. hihihihi). I choose this way wholeheartedly. Its not that I’m so ugly if I’m single until so-called marriage phase, right? Yes, I have no pretty face but there are many reasons to love someone other than physical things right?
Finding Mr. Right needs some time. I want to marry soon but I don’t want it happens because of social pressure. Some things are meant to happen in its own time. I want to naturally fall in love. Waiting for the "it" person no matter how long it takes will be a time worth spent. God knows that I just can't meet my soulmate in the present time so I’m enjoying my life. I'll be waiting for him patiently.

Well, I don’t even listen to what they said about single status. Marriage is not about certain time, its about the right one. Friends of mine said they’re tired of those words came from society. On other hand, I’m not toning down because of it. The society can't define our life. Everything has its own timing. Just lemme walk on my own way to  find my husband material. :)

Rrrr, lets move on from that topic. Oh yep, I had a meeting with Yafindo’s main team in the afternoon. I got an interesting position here: IT and PR coordinator. Those two are two things I treasured. I always feel so fresh after met those cool persons in Yafindo. I’ll work hard to support Yafindo from now on. :)

Tonight, Maul and I will discuss plans for our trip. Good night diary, I’ll tell you later the place I wanna visit. One more: eventhough single, stay happy, Iim. For all single ladies, shine girl shine. Lets settle for more. :)
-------------------------
Read also: IMZ's Diary 09102013

0 Comments:

Post a Comment

Videos

Jakarta, Indonesia

SEND ME A MESSAGE